Remember your #weddingday? Did you plan out the details and imagine how it would look and feel days, weeks, or months in advance?
What about your support team? Wedding party, officiant, friends, family, and whomever would be part of your life long after the moment you said "always?"
You surrounded yourself with love and support, and hired a few professionals to help you do the things that are important to you. And when the day came, it was incredible. Sure, there were mistakes made.
Not everything turned out exactly as you had hoped. But your support team was there to help you navigate the surprises and you came away from the day feeling like it was truly a life-changing moment where you empowered yourself through the love and support of your village.
Birth is so incredibly similar to a wedding day. Like marriage, birth gives life to a new person. A new entity. It is the beginning of forever. And just like the love of two spouses grows from its birth until it is old and grey, so does the love you will have for your child.
Let me help you find your support team for this new era. I promise to be as professional as any wedding planner; to be as kind and compassionate as your closest family member; and to be as empathetic yet firm as your BFF.
You and your spouse can rest assured that when the rough nights after birth have you feeling frayed and confused that I will be there to reassure you and to take over when you need to sleep. Because #mentalhealth and #selfcare are things that I know to be essential for new families.
When your little one's grandparent is confused about why you might choose to do things a little different than they did, I know how to use laughter to help these situations feel less awkward and more awesome.
And when the time comes for you to fly on your own, you'll be the most confident parents you know because you had such a wonderful experience with a doula by your side who didn't tell you what to do but instead helped you to do what you wanted to do with confidence.
I want to be there to help you plan your birth. Not to determine beforehand the course of events that will take place, but to build a system of preparation that includes the support of family and friends, the help of my professional expertise, and the right education so that you'll know what to do when the unpredictability of parenthood shows up.
Remember your wedding? I want you to remember your birth with the same nostalgia and love.
Erin love to write about topics that families are interested in, to help spread awareness throughout the community, and to help her clients and future clients better understand her services. She loves chatting with people about her blogs, so feel free to contact her!